“Where has closeness in your marriage quietly turned into logistics?”

“What would it look like to outdo each other in humility instead of winning?”

“What keeps your love warm instead of merely functional?”

“Which version of you keeps showing up in your marriage: gentle or exhausted?”

“What argument in your marriage actually starts with not feeling heard?”

“What phrase from you lands like acid on your spouse?”

“Which line in this passage sounds beautiful until your spouse disappoints you?”

“Where are you trying to carry life solo while technically married?”

“What do you criticize in them because it is easier than facing it in you?”

“How well do you actually know what it is like to be married to you?”

“What need of your spouse have you minimized because yours feels louder?”

“What keeps you anchored when the feelings are thin?”

“What helps delight return when duty has taken over?”

“What small act of effort would make your spouse feel chosen this week?”

“What apology have you delayed because you want them to go first?”

“What part of repair is actually yours, even if they are not ready yet?”

“When was the last time your spouse felt strengthened by you?”

“Where do you need God in your marriage, not just better communication?”

“What conversation about intimacy have you avoided because honesty feels vulnerable?”

“What would tenderness sound like in the place where you have both gotten sharp?”

“Bring Jesus into the ordinary jars of your marriage. What needs his touch?”