“What sits under your anger when it cools down?”

“What happens to your discernment when you get triggered?”

“What injustice genuinely should bother you, and what is just your ego getting bruised?”

“What tone turns a disagreement into a blaze?”

“Who are you dehumanizing in your head?”

“How do you leak anger before you admit it?”

“What revenge story have you been replaying?”

“Which form of anger suits you best: sharp words, icy distance, sarcasm, withdrawal?”

“What conflict would improve if you stopped talking around it?”

“What old wound is getting touched in this conflict?”

“Can truth come out of your mouth without contempt riding with it?”

“Where do you keep picking fights that never produce fruit?”

“What actually needs confrontation, and what needs release?”

“What would fighting fair look like in your home this week?”